key to marriage.

The key to marriage is selflessness.

If one person has it, it will work. If both people have it, it will be amazing.

I heard that in a sermon a while back and jotted it down. I'm not sure who said it but I know whoever did say it, gets it. I'm by no means the perfect wife, and Russell is not the perfect husband, but I do believe we are perfect for each other. I do know that every day I need to work on my marriage and be a more selfless person. I struggle with not feeling sufficient enough, and constantly complaining and getting on Russell, and for some crazy reason, he loves me through my doubts and fears. I not only want a marriage that works, but I want it to be amazing.

Burn.

Russell is so sweet.

I came home around noon to eat lunch with him and I saw that he had lit the candles around the house. It really are the little things that make a differnce. I love these candles for all of their autumny smells. Looking out for one another and showing each other how much you care inspires each spouse to want to "do better" for each other. I thought it was so thoughtful of him to do this for me. It made me smile.

I know I am not the perfect wife and I don't do everything right, but he loves me anyway. I know that I make mistakes, get frustrated, burn a meal, say something wrong, but he still forgives. I see this as a reminder of how much Jesus loves me, cares for me and forgives me every single time. Each and every day I will continue to strive to be a better wife and honor God by doing so.

I've got you, babe.

The past few days have been full and fun...just the way I like them:

Friday night: we went out for pizza and did our grocery shopping. I decided I like shopping with Russell a lot better than shopping alone. In an attempt to eat healthy, we started out buying milk and oatmeal but quickly started throwing mac n cheese and chocolate granola bars in the cart....we're no good.

Saturday: was Sampa's (Russell's maternal grandfather) birthday. A bunch of his family got together and went to eat breakfast. We came home and cleaned house. Then we went to Sam's (Russell's younger brother) soccer game where he scored his first goal. After that we loaded up and headed to Little Rock with his family to go to the Apple store and to dinner. Although the guys were not able to get the new iphones we ate a lovely Italian dinner. We got home just in time to watch the second half of the Duck vs. ASU game...of course Oregon won!!!

Today: we went to church. After church we ate lunch and walked down to the park to play catch with the football Russell found while cleaning out the yard. (YAY!!!) For dinner we went down to the little mexican restaurant around the corner and ate quesadillas. With Russell's student discount, we ate dinner for $4.10. SO good. SO cheap. :)

...today also happens to be our 3 month. ;) I love my husband.

(photobooth strip is from our wedding.)

Sick.

We love the weekends. No work. No school. All play. Two little days where we can do anything we'd like. This past weekend was different. Sickness hit our household. Super yuck. So, we spent the weekend watching movies, talking, napping and watching football. Nothing got accompished around the house. We didn't go on any adventures. We just stayed in. It was nice. I love my husband. He loves me. I really wouldn't mind spending every day just hanging out with him. It was a nice change of pace for us allthough I hope this next weekend we are all better and can do something fun.



Russell has a fantasy football team so we always catch at least one game. Sunday night we caught the Packers vs Falcons game. Everytime we watch the Packers play, it reminds me of my sisters love for that team. She also has a crush on Aaron Rodgers. I miss my sister.

*photo: this is one I took at her house. She has a framed picture of Aaron Rodgers, along with an action figure Russell gave to her last Christmas.

My husband makes me very happy...

1. He has fully embraced [and encouraged] my ice cream addiction.
2. He lets me pick the music in the car.
3. There's this cute bald patch of hair under his chin that he lets me rub (he also has this scar on the left side of his lip. Imperfections make me happy.)
4. He kisses and holds me close when I'm sad. It always makes me feel better.
5. He eats the food I cook for him because he's a good sport and knows I need the practice.
6. He likes taking pictures as much as I do.
7. He knows which medicines to give me when I am sick. (He even goes to Walgreens after we are already laying in bed, to go get me more medicine so I can sleep better.)
8. He wears glasses.
9. He reads to me from our devotional or from articles online. I love him.
10. He always reminds me of how much he loves me and how happy he is to be married to me. He's wonderful.

:) I'm in love.

russell & hillary...

            love each other very much!

                                                                         And now, we have this little blog to share our lives.  xoxo